Spoons, spatulas, wearing leather or even latex gloves can change the sensation for the bottom. I know your not supposed to use food, but using food as a bribe seems to work also for some kids. In sum, I agree with the late great Gore Vidal: It might be a full erotic spanking session or just a well placed slap on the ass during sex. Today all the searching in the spanko world and BDSM world leaves me sadly unfulfilled. But getting any sort of determination of that would involve bringing the nature and behaviour of the spanker, beyond just the act of spanking, into a falsifiable framework, not just a simple-minded sort and count of the spanked or not.
It can even help an adult who was spanked as a child to erotically transcend some of the negative effects of his or her traumatic childhood.
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